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Engagement Pictures At The IMA | Indianapolis Wedding Photographers

One of my favorite things about being a wedding photographer, other than becoming great friends with fabulous people, is that I get to travel and see places that I’ve never been before. I had never been to Indianapolis so when Courtney and Christopher asked me to go there for their engagement pictures, I was a little excited. I love it when clients know exactly what they want! And who doesn’t love to travel?

Courtney and Christopher wanted to plan their engagement pictures to be taken at the Indianapolis Museum of Art (IMA), and once I saw that GIANT steel LOVE statue in front of the museum, that was all I could think about. The IMA definitely did not disappoint. There were so many beautiful features located throughout the grounds and we spent the afternoon chasing the sun.

We spent probably three hours shooting at the IMA. We just didn’t want to stop! It was so beautiful and we were having so much fun. But eventually we realized that we were all REALLY HUNGRY, so Courtney and Christopher treated us to Napolese… a swanky little pizza place with a beautiful wine bar in downtown Indianapolis.

My only regret about being in Indianapolis last weekend is that I didn’t plan to stay longer. For the short amount of time that I was there, I fell in love with the city and I look forward to going back and visiting more of the places that I spotted. Speaking of spotting things… I was there on prom night and I saw a limo drive down the road that looked like a turkey! It had a giant turkey head and tail mounted to the car. Indianapolis reminded me of a miniature Vegas… without a roller coaster or the casinos. LOL

Courtney and Christopher… I had so much fun with you guys in Indy. I can’t wait to see you two again on your wedding day. Thank you so much for letting me be a part of your big day. Your engagement pictures are beautiful! And so are you!

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Does Rockstar Status Equal Success?

As I was walking through the trails toward a gorgeously flowing waterfall, with thousands of dollars of camera gear on my back, and three children and two Great Danes in tow, the ground began to crumble under my feet as though the earth were sinking into an abyss of swirling soil. I immediately began to sink into the earth while reaching desperately for one of my precious children’s’ hands to help pull me to safety. I could hear the water falling from the many layers of jagged rocks in the distance as though it were encouraging me to keep fighting to reach the safety of its cool spray. I continued to fight for what seemed like an eternity, while each struggle of movement loosened a little more dirt beneath me. I was losing the battle. I was sinking further and further into the earth until eventually there was no safety… only dirt closing in on the air I could no longer breathe. And just as I was about to take my last breathe, I awoke from my horrible nightmare and was covered in beads of sweat.

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It was only a dream. At least that is what I keep telling myself. But in reality I know that this dream came after the challenges of getting discouraged about my status as a photographer. You see while I was at WPPI last year, I think I may have had a mild panic attack. It was my third year of attending WPPI and I absolutely loved the idea of being around so many other photographers and soaking in all I could learn. But last year was the first official year of UNITE that was also being held during the week of WPPI and I was asked to speak on a panel next to a few photographers whom I had really admired for a while and considered to be the epiphany of success. I was honored to serve on the panel with them because I was surrounded by greatness. But what I wasn’t prepared for was the way that made me feel afterward. I spent a lot of time in my hotel room that week instead of taking WPPI classes. I wanted to hide out and avoid running into anyone who might have recognized who I was.

After returning home from WPPI that year, I ended up removing myself from a ton of Facebook groups and very rarely being active in the groups that I continued to remain. I’m not really sure what happened. I still can’t articulate into words how I felt in Vegas at that time or how I feel about it today. But what I DO KNOW is this: My priorities have changed. 

My definition of success has changed!

I am no longer sucked in by photographers who are viewed as rock stars. After spending time with various people during WPPI, I realized that I did not want their lives! Some of the photographers (and even videographers) that I thought I liked and admired turned out to be such a disappointment. I was comparing my every day to their highlight reels or what they decided to share with the world. But after being able to spend some one on one time with a few of those rockstars, I learned some pretty awful things about them, and realized that I had been drinking the water. I think that the knowledge that I walked away from WPPI with that year was that my priorities were completely messed up. So I came home and spent the next year and a half focusing on what was really important.

I ended up removing a couple of “friends” from my life. I deleted a few friends from Facebook as well and turned off notifications in Facebook groups that I wanted to stay in. Don’t worry… there was no drama to speak of. Just a decision on my part to readjust my expectations out of people and to focus on my definition of success. And what I realized is that I am already successful.

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I am living my dream!

I am booking enough weddings and portrait sessions to make my salary requirements that allows me to work as a full time photographer. I am blessed with a successful business that provides me with enough income to work from home (other than the days I’m actually shooting). And by being at home full time, I am able to be a full time mom. But it doesn’t stop there! I am not only a full time mom, but I am their full time teacher. Home schooling my children was not something I set out to do. It just happened. And it turned out to be the biggest blessing of all. And what about traveling? Who doesn’t love to travel? When I get to travel for engagement sessions or weddings, I get to pack up and take the whole family with me without having to worry about what they might miss in school. Instead we get to plan mini vacations around my work schedule and that is the best part of all.

If I were not booking enough weddings and sessions to make the salary that I do, I would not be able to do this. Scott and I are still pretty young and we are paying off quite a bit of debt in student loans from college. And you wouldn’t believe how expensive it is to home school. Curriculum costs alone will break the bank for most people. But God has managed to bless us each and every year with exactly what we need and exactly when we need it. We are not rich by any stretch of the imagination. At least not with money and expensive things. Instead we are rich with love and family and a career that I am not only passionate about, but successful enough to provide us with a lifestyle that we love.

Behind the scenes photos of an engagement session in indianapolis indiana. Photographer is nashville wedding photographer wendy cunningham

I definitely interact with fewer and fewer people on Facebook than I used to. Don’t get me wrong, I stay in contact with a lot of colleagues because being a part of the photography community is important. And I am posting status updates and current work while tagging my clients in their photos.  But  I am focusing on relationships that have true value instead of the highlight reels that others tend to share online. I invest in the people who actually invest in me. And I can honestly say that I am happier today than I have ever been. My life is enriched with family and true friends. I am honored to be able to focus on true friendships with my clients after their wedding date. I am living life instead of trying to be a rockstar. It is no longer about how many weddings I can show on Facebook or how many people I can get to like my Facebook page. NO! It is about living in the moment and appreciating what I have.

What did I learn at WPPI that year?

I learned that I have so much to be thankful for, and that my family, friends, and clients are what is important! My status in the photography industry will never reach rockstar level because that is not my goal! My goal is to continue loving on the people in my life and to live each moment with both feet in! And THAT makes me a ROCKSTAR!

 

Pamela Parton - May 16, 2013 - 2:14 pm

You’ll always be a rockstar to me,Wendy! You are one of the few photographers that I do follow and always enjoy reading and seeing your blogs…You are so down to earth and that is one of the qualities that makes you so awesome! :-)

Wendy Cunningham - May 16, 2013 - 2:18 pm

You are too kind Pamela! Thank you so much!

KrisD Mauga - May 16, 2013 - 2:24 pm

AWE…Wendy I’m so sad you felt that way. I too at the same event, same year went and hid in my shared room when the roomies were away for a FULL- day n half (don’t tell-I was supposed to be assisting the vent) but I had to step out of all the ‘brilliance and success’ being showcased. It’s hard to not feel less when people share so much greatness going on. The reality is NO ONE is as fabulous as they perceive on their blogs, in forums, at conferences and especially NOT Facebook! “I’m famous at least on facebook”- right? LOL I’m thrilled for your new success and you stepping out to create it all on your own! Cheers!

Wendy Cunningham - May 16, 2013 - 2:28 pm

I can tell from your comment that you totally understand where I was coming from! It was so overwhelming! I almost quit photography! But I am so glad I didn’t because I have come full circle in the last year and half. And I have been seeing your journey as well KrisD. I am so proud of what you have accomplished with Krash Sets! Thank you for taking the time to read my post!

Kim - May 16, 2013 - 2:30 pm

Beautifully said, Wendy. From the bottom of my heart, you truly are a rockstar.

Kristin - May 16, 2013 - 6:26 pm

YES! So proud of you for letting go of that idea of rock star and living intentionally the way you’re so obviously meant to. Homeschooling, working, and being a mom full time? That’s pretty rockstar to me, in the best of ways! :) Good for you!!

David Wright - May 16, 2013 - 10:53 pm

Great article from the heart Wendy! I admire you for digging deep into your heart, making the changes that you did and needed to. I also greatly admire you for expressing yourself to others. Congratulations on your personal and professional successes!

I totally understand where you are coming from.
David Wright

Stephanie - May 17, 2013 - 1:41 pm

This was awesome to read and came at just the right time for me. I *know* my definition of success (it’s very similar to yours!) but I feel like I’ve been letting others’ definitions get in my way. It’s good to reconnect with what’s meaningful to you and, by the sound of this post, it looks like you’ve done that wonderfully.

Pinterest Love Hate | How To Choose A Photographer | Photographer’s Corner

I am a Nashville Wedding Photographer, and I love looking at Pinterest for inspiration and ideas. There are some really awesome engagement pictures, wedding pictures, and portraits to be found on Pinterest. There are also some pretty cool DIY projects, house decorating ideas, and yummy recipes. But here lately I am having a love/hate relationship with Pinterest. It is no longer just a place for photographers to gain inspiration, but a place where our clients are falling in love with other photographers’ work and then praying we can emulate that work. So how do we respond to our clients when they send us a ton of Pinterest pictures and say, “Can you do this?”

The obvious answer is yes. I can emulate those shots. But I do not want to.

We want to make our clients happy and give them what they want. But where do we draw the line? For me it comes down to educating my clients. If a client sends me a ton of Pinterest pictures and asks if we can get some shots like them, I usually respond by saying, “Those images that you sent me are gorgeous. I can definitely see the high fashion, classic style that you are attracted to. If you notice in those photos, the couple is wearing a very high fashion styled outfit with lots of amazing details such as shoes and accessories. And the location of the photos have been carefully planned to match that couple. And I’m sure that if you and I put our heads together we can come up with our own concept that will allow you to have photos of the same style while still making them custom and unique to you two as a couple.”

WHEW! That was a long response wasn’t it? But to me that is necessary. In order for me to remain fresh and inspired, I need to have artistic control of my work. I am not only a photographer, but an artist. It is important to me that my clients trust me to provide a quality and an experience that they will love. And while I will definitely draw inspiration from the style of photos that they send me, I am unable to change my style of photography to give them that exact thing.

So the next time that your clients send you a ton of images from Pinterest and asks YOU to emulate them, just remember that not everyone understands that each photographer has a unique style. The general non photographer public thinks that it is just a matter of pointing and shooting usually. So they do not understand that they should be searching for a photographer with a style like the images that they sent you. Just help them to understand that if they like the photos on your website, then they will like the photos that they get from you.

And to my non photographer friends… when you are surfing Pinterest for ideas, make sure you are not expecting a photographer to emulate those ideas and that you are ready to tell your photographer what it is that you like about those shots. But keep in mind that all photographers have a style. And to get an idea of what you are going to receive with your pictures, you need to study their websites. Just yesterday someone sent me a shot that they found on Pinterest that showed a really “sexy” girl standing in front of a hotrod car that was lit up with lots of lights and featured smoke in the background asking me if I could emulate the shot. The answer is yes. I know HOW to emulate the shot. But it is not my specialty or my style. So I’m probably not going to.:)

Happy Wednesday everyone!

Engagement Photos taken in Nashville Tennessee

 

 

Lebanon Maternity Pictures | Trina and Clayton

I have been shooting Trina and Clayton Johnson’s pictures for a few years now. When they contacted me about shooting their maternity pictures I knew this session was going to be amazingly fun because all of their portrait requests are unique and fun. I love it when clients want to show their TRUE personalities in their photos. Trina had spent quite a few hours on Pinterest combing through ideas for her maternity session. Usually when clients do this it scares me a little because it restrains me from being able to get creative on my own, or it can sometimes setup clients for disappointment if their pictures do not turn out exactly like the pinned photo they found. But we were so excited about how her bubble picture turned out that we forgot about any of the other pinned photos she had in mind. And when you are shooting at a location as beautiful as Fiddler’s Grove in Lebanon, it is hard not to get amazing shots.

Thank you Trina and Clayton for trusting me with this precious moment in your lives. I can’t wait to meet baby Corben when he finally arrives. ANY DAY NOW! Now excuse me while I go do my happy dance!:)

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Common Core Standards | Why The Uproar?

Yes this post is long! And most of you will probably not read past the first paragraph. But if you want to hear a complete unbiased opinion, then keep reading. I will be the first to admit that I do not know everything there is to know about the Common Core Standards (CCS). As a matter of fact, during my research over the past few day I have probably walked away more confused than anything. So this blog post is by no means meant to be informative about the CCS, but rather a discussion about the pros and the cons. It is an attempt to learn more factual information rather than opinionated views. Because so far all I have been able to find are articles written by people who are angry that the government is mandating the change. That point is kind of null at this point since the change has been mandated, right? So where do we go from here? What does this mean?

Let me start with a definition of Common Core Standards: The CCS is a set of common K-12 content standards in English/Language Arts and Math that is expected to be adopted in all fifty states so that education will be standardized throughout the country. The purpose is to impose rigorous standards so that our students will be better prepared for competing in the global economy and to allow for comparison of student performance among states. 

There are soooooo many opinions floating around out there about weather or not the mandated change for CCS is a good thing or a bad thing. I posted a question on my Facebook wall about this and I had tons of response and lots of various opinions. Some people believe that the CCS is the just another step in the direction toward becoming a socialist country. People are upset about the fact that the federal government imposed the mandated change without any say from teachers, parents or states. Others are upset that each state will have the same standard. People are saying that the problem isn’t with the standards themselves, but rather the way that they were adopted and claim that government should have zero say in what is taught in schools.

So here is where I start questioning things:

My first question is this: What’s the big deal? I honestly do not understand how CCS can be a bad thing. Unless I am missing something (which is very likely) I can only see benefits for the CCS. Once everyone gets over the fact that the federal government has inserted themselves into the decision making process and basically trumped the state’s level of any decisions regarding education, they will realize that the CCS has been implemented into 45 of our 50 states for several years now anyway, even though it wasn’t officially mandated. I get that people do not LIKE the way everything was put into action. I mean it sucks. It really does. Everyone loves to hate the federal government. I get that. But what I don’t get is how wanting our nation’s students to be smarter and achieve higher can be a bad thing.

I have lived in the south my entire life. I grew up in a tiny town in Louisiana before I moved to an even smaller town in Tennessee. My graduating high school class had less than 50 students. When I was in high school, I did not have very many educational opportunities. That is probably the reason that I made a career out of going to college for twelve years. I probably have more college hours than anyone in history! But honestly I was intrigued with college. I wanted to learn everything. So I took a million classes that I didn’t even need for graduation. My student loans will prove it!

Here’s the thing… With shows on television such as My Big Redneck Vacation, Honey Boo Boo, My Big Redneck Wedding, and Swamp People, the entire country thinks that everyone in the south is a redneck uneducated hillbilly. Every single time I watch the news, the news reporter is interviewing someone with rollers in their hair, rotten front teeth, and speaking horribly improper english. GUESS WHAT?! We may not ALL be typical southerners. But the country’s view of how educated southerners are is not totally off base. In the state of Tennessee there are major cities such as Nashville, Franklin, Memphis, Chattanooga and Knoxville. The best education is where the money is. Franklin has one of the highest ranking educational scores in the state which is no surprise since that is the most expensive place to live in the state. But Nashville, our state’s capital for crying out loud, scores the lowest score ever! And what about these small rural communities such as Manchester, Smithville, and Gordonsville? They don’t stand a chance because there is no money for the schools!

One other thing to note that critics are not happy about is the fact that when states conform to the CCS standards they qualify for a waiver that releases them from the No Child Left Behind expectations. This is a good thing right? It is my opinion that the No Child Left Behind Act is the worst thing that has ever happened to our education system because teachers could no longer focus on the child’s best interest or learning style because they had to start teaching kids to the test because this test score determined funding. UGH! This is why we homeschool. It no longer became about my child but rather this stupid test. CCS critics believe that the new standards will be “dumbing down” what is already in place for many areas of the country. But what I don’t understand is why they believe that they have to dumb it down? When you are in a southern state like Tennessee, Georgia, Alabama, Mississippi and Louisiana where schools are doing badly overall in comparison to schools in other states, then something needs to be done. Tennessee rates number 46 out of 50 states for test scores. So while critics will have you believe that the CCS will actually be “dumbing down” education, that simply is not true. CCS is meant to serve as a bare minimum set of skills that each grade level is expected to learn. Does that mean that we can’t teach them more? I would think that states still have the control to ADD TO the CCS right? This is an area I am not clear on, but seriously… why not?

The federal government has given 360 million dollars to create new computerized tests for students that conform to the new CCS. There is a lot of criticism about this because it is believed that at some point it will become the state’s responsibility to pay for these tests. Most criticism about the CCS has been aimed toward the money that this will cost and the federal government getting involved. But this country has been in a downward spiral for years and years. Yes I understand that money does not grow on trees but for crying out loud can we focus on students for a little bit?

So I ask you this? How exactly is the CCS a bad thing when it will allow failing schools to have the same opportunities as higher ranking schools? How can it be a bad thing that students all over the country will be able to compete with each other in the national workforce rather than just the local?

I keep reading articles that people are posting. And I have tried to do some research myself but I can’t get past everyone being mad at the government over the whole thing to find anything substantial out about the actual standards. So far everything I am reading is just people stomping their feet and getting mad because nobody at the state level had any say about it. And I get that, but I want to know aside from the fact that the government forced this… NOW WHAT? What does it truly mean for kids?

Now on the flip side of this, I definitely see some areas for concern. But like any rational person, I believe that concerns can be addressed and problems can be fixed. But what about representation? If the states are no longer in charge of education, then who will the school systems contact when there are problems with the curriculum working in the classroom? Right now it seems that there is no one available to represent the classroom. This is definitely a problem… but a problem that I believe will be addressed quickly. Maybe not! We shall see. But let’s hope so.

So what about home schoolers? What does the CCS mean for homeschool students? Well groups like Stop Common Core would have us all believe that home schoolers are threatened by CCS because the government wants to control EVERY ASPECT of education even for home schoolers. But there is simply no evidence that home school families have anything to worry about. To be honest a lot would have to change other than CCS. CCS may be able to strip the state of their say in education in the public school classroom because of grants that the government supplies to the school if they comply. And since every school wants more money, of course they are going to comply! But parents do not receive government funding to educate their children at home, and there is simply NO REASON for homeschool families to be alarmed at this time. The only reason for homeschool families to be alarmed would be when the government wants to step in and remove our rights to home educate altogether. And I’m pretty sure that is just NOT going to happen.

I am going to end this post by copying and pasting something that was shared on my Facebook wall surrounding this topic by one of my friends who does not homeschool her children. This is what she had to say:

“There is a lot of misinformation and misuse of terms in this thread (i.e. “socialist”). Common Core is geared towards schools who are at risk of not performing well (low income, minorities, etc.) just like IDEA is aimed at school districts that tend to not provide a FAPE for kids with disabilities. It in no way hinders teachers from going above and beyond. The problem with placing decisions at the state level is that in states where they have a large rural, uneducated adult population, the need for higher educational standards will not be a priority thus perpetuating the poor educational standards and subsequently poverty and all that goes along with it (unemployment, discrimination, obesity, etc.). There is no single fix for anything, but quite honestly if some states were left to their own devices, they would eliminate things like the holocaust or basic scientific principles from their curriculum, which is not beneficial to the country as a whole. As consumers of information, we have to be careful where we find our information about topics like this. Staying away from biased news media such as MSNBC and Fox News is best. And any time we see inflammatory terms like “socialism” you can almost bet it’s more of an opinion piece and not factual information. The only opinion we should hold is our own, which is based on our own research and reading of the actual law and peer reviewed, scholarly research. Funny fact: I read one article talking about how Common Core is leading to socialism and how kids in the new “program” were making socialist flags. Considering that socialism is an economic system and not a country, I found this humorous.”

Honestly her statement hit the nail on the head! (Forgive the southern term) Everything I have found online about the CCS has been so tainted with opinion instead of facts that matter, I can’t gather for myself whether this is a good thing or bad. People like those who have formed websites and groups such as Stop Common Core have listed some great factual information, but they have tainted it with negative tones and biased opinions so that people who read their message will jump on board for their cause. Now don’t get me wrong. They have some valid points. But are they so stupid to believe that the American public is not able to see right through their agenda? Groups like Stop Common Core are hoping that the general public is too idiotic to form their own opinion simply because they throw some fancy terminology and true facts at you. But the fact that they are tainting the information with tone and biased opinion, to me, makes them unreliable.

So I urge you ALL… both home school families AND public school families… to consider where you are drawing your information from before jumping on board with one side of the argument or the other. Don’t allow yourself to form an opinion from tainted or biased information. Be smart! And let our kids’ education be the main priority… not keeping the federal government out and not the focus on where the money is going to come from. Stop letting MONEY run our country and start letting someone do what is best for our students!

And because I am a photographer, and this is a really long post… I leave you with a photo. One that has nothing to do with this topic, but a photo nonetheless.