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Nashville Wedding Photographer: Wendy C. Photography Cocktail Hour

It is Wednesday and I want to share my Wedding Wednesday day tip with you!  Today I want my brides and grooms to consider a cocktail hour.  The cocktail hour has become a very popular trend with many couples on their wedding day.  Aside from the fact that they are fun, cocktail hours provide your guests and family a place to sit and chat with each other while sipping a beverage.  This can be used for several VALUABLE reasons, and I want to discuss how you can use a cocktail hour to benefit you!

Let me start with the pre-wedding cocktail hour!  You may choose to have your cocktail hour before the wedding ceremony.  Many couples are opting to have their formal wedding photos taken before the ceremony begins, and a pre-ceremony cocktail hour gives your guests something fun to keep them occupied as they are arriving to your wedding. There are advantages to having your formal wedding and family photos taken before the ceremony.  The main advantage is that you and your bridal party will look fresh and neat, without as many wrinkles in your dress as you may afterward. Just remember that if you choose to have a pre-wedding cocktail hour, you are doing this for your guests.  The bride should always save her appearance for the ceremony.

If you and your fiance are choosing not to see each other before the ceremony, then maybe a post-ceremony cocktail hour would be better for you.  After your ceremony, your guests can enjoy a drink or two and maybe even light hors d’oeuvres during the cocktail hour.  This will allow your caterer time to complete the finishing touches on your formal dinner service or buffet line while also giving you and your photographer time to finish up your formal wedding photos.  There is nothing more horrible then asking your friends and family who have come to support you on the biggest day of your life, to wait on you while you take pictures.  And with a post-ceremony cocktail hour, you may actually get to participate in it with your guests once your photos are finished.  So cocktail hours are a great way to keep everyone happy!

Cocktail hours, whether they be before your ceremony or after, should be planned to produce an atmosphere conducive to informal socializing.  Remember that you are only wanting to make your guests comfortable while they wait.  Keep it simple, yet comfortable.  Serving a specific drink, possibly tying in your wedding theme or wedding colors to the drink, will make things fun and memorable for your guests.  But keep in mind, while you want your guests to socialize and mingle, you do not want to create a room full of intoxicated people.  So save the main drinks for your open bar at your reception!

Want to see what a cocktail party is all about?  Check these out these signature drinks that I found over at Martha Stuart Weddings!  Click on the photos to take you to the site to learn how to make these fabulous, eye pleasing, tummy yummy drinks for your own cocktail hour!

Wedding Cocktail Hour Signature Drinks

Cocktail Hour Signature Drinks

And for more cocktail hour signature drink ideas… be sure to check out Martha Stuart Weddings SIGNATURE DRINKS.

Are you already married?  Did you have a cocktail hour at your wedding?  What about you caterers and wedding planners out there?  Do you have any tips for my upcoming brides?  Leave me a comment and let’s hear about your ideas or your own cocktail hour!


lindsey - March 3, 2010 - 3:07 pm

as far as cocktails are concerned, simple is better. a few classic drinks, made well with quality ingredients, will hit the mark every time. the best example of classics, well done is the patterson house- their bartenders are available for hire. my favorite reception idea right now- which can also help you have a happy wedding budget- is to serve champagne + dessert. to get people moving + mingling, place items all around the room- like different small cakes on each table.

Wendy C. Photography - March 3, 2010 - 3:18 pm

Thanks Lindsey! I have personally never experienced the Patterson House, but after doing a quick Google search of them after your comment, I’m pretty sure that I will have to get over there very quickly! I can’t find one single negative review about them. Everyone is singing them praises! Look out Patterson House… I’m coming to check you out!

lindsey - March 3, 2010 - 3:36 pm

absolutely! i’m not a big drinker myself, but at tph… it’s a different world. there is a line at the door before they even open at 5pm.

Kelly - March 3, 2010 - 9:34 pm

I have planned both, cocktail hours before and after the ceremony. It really depends on your venue. If you are having a church wedding, the cocktail hour before is a no go. But if you are having your wedding at a country club or other similar venue where your guests can gather in an area away from where the ceremony will take place then go for it.

One couple that did just this had a downtown wedding. The venue had a downstairs area where we served a signature drink (mojitos), wine and bite size appetizers. We announced when it was time to make their way upstairs for the ceremony and be seated. After the ceremony the guests were lead into the reception area where a full bar was available and the DJ played background music until the bride and groom were announced. Then the food stations were opened and the party began.

Most of the time the cocktail hour is after the ceremony and I have done it several different ways. One of my favorites was a garden reception. After the ceremony the guest were invited to the entrance of the reception site where bistro tables and a bar were set up. We served a signature cocktail (spiked pink lemonade) in mason jars and beer. We also had a food station of various cheeses, crackers and fruit for guests to snack on. When the wedding couple arrived, the guests entered the garden area and then the bride, groom and attendants were introduced. This was a great way to entertain the guests and allowed a grand entrance to the reception that was really fun.

This is a great way to incorporate a couples personality so be creative and have fun!

Wendy C. Photography - March 3, 2010 - 9:40 pm

Awesome! Thanks Kelly! I have a wedding coming up where the couple has chosen mason jars for their drinks at their reception as well. I love it when a couple gets creative and uses simple things to make their wedding and reception stand out!

Vickie - March 3, 2010 - 10:33 pm

My daughter’s reception was held at a Nashville historic plantation. With so many relatives from New England & Great Britain, she wanted to show off the South. So, when guests arrived from the church, we had waiters greeting the guests in the gardens holding silver trays with glasses of iced tea & iced water (along with appetizers). After mingling & enjoying the historic grounds, they moved into the reception hall for wine & beer & champange before & with dinner. Looking back on it, I think it was a great decision because the evening was so hot. The English relatives were melting from the humidity so I don’t really think they missed their cocktails!
Personally, I’ve always wanted to have a Art Deco/Roaring Twenties Cocktail Hour! Something that looks straight out of ‘The Great Gatsby’. Some wine & beer maybe but a Martini would be the highlight. Served by waiters with slicked-back hair & wearing tuxedos w/tails. The girls of course would be dancing the Charleston on top of the tables when the Prohibition police arrive to break up the party!!!! LOL! …Of course a Bride doesn’t have to go that far but Martinis (and I mean the original) served on silver trays would be so stylish & cool…don’t ya think?!

Wendy C. Photography - March 3, 2010 - 10:37 pm

Oh Vickie! How FUN! I want to be the photographer at that wedding! I love the twenties era! I always thought I was born in the wrong era! A Roaring Twenties Cocktail Hour! WORD UP!

Clayton Johnson - March 4, 2010 - 4:05 pm

When having a Cocktail hour be sure to have a signature drink! Maybe the drink should be the same as your wedding color or your favorite drink? Here is a easy recipe for “Blushing Bride” drink:

1 oz. 10 Cane Rum

1 oz. Pama Pomegranate Liqueur

1/2 oz. Fresh squeezed lemon juice

1/2 oz. Mint-infused simple syrup

Directions: Shake all ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice and strain into a chilled martini glass.

Garnish: mint sprig and lemon twist

ENJOY!

Wendy C. Photography - March 4, 2010 - 4:08 pm

Hi Clayton! Thanks! I like anything with Pomegranate! Yummo!

Nashville Wedding Photographer: Wendy C. Photography Tuesday Truth

In honor of Tuesdays, I want to post a Tuesday Truth!  So here is a bit of true confession for you…

I have to admit that I am easily discouraged.  I am very passionate about my work as a photographer, and it is hard for me to understand why anyone would not support my efforts.  Giving back to my community is something that is very important to me, and I have been on the hunt for ways to do that not only with myself, but with the Nashville Photography Meetup Group that I help organize.  The group has over 600 members and it is growing rapidly.

I was beginning to get discouraged about my own efforts.  Sometimes I feel like my efforts are wasted, and that I am not making a difference!  But then something amazing happens, and another door is opened.  This is how I know that God is in control and leading my way.

Today turned out to be amazing!  Dave, one of our organizers of the photography group, informed me that Adobe agreed to sponsor our group by giving away one or two copies of Adobe Lightroom.  But that’s not all… I contacted Scott Bourne with Photofocus, and he is going to sponsor us as well by giving me a complete copy of Nik Software to give away!

It is times like this that make me proud of myself and my efforts, as well as making me proud of others.  Adobe is a huge company that could have very easily said no!  Scott Bourne gets TONS of requests every day, but he was able to see the good in what we are trying to do with the group!  We have to start somewhere, and I am so honored that we are going to start out with a bang as big as Adobe and Photofocus!  I have the utmost respect for them because they took the time to stop and listen.  And sometimes, listening is enough!

So today’s truth is that even I get discouraged.  But I am proud to be a part of a profession that has such caring and giving individuals!  Thank you Scott Bourne and Adobe for taking the time to listen and for your HUGE contribution in helping me make the Nashville Photography Meetup Group a stronger body of giving photographers!

Bill Vincent - March 3, 2010 - 8:54 am

Hi Wendy,

Wow, great post! Discouragement and doubt are so easy to give in to – I have that “cynical/sarcastic/caustic voice” in my head (I’m not actually hearing voices in my head, but you know what I mean!) that plays on my confidence and it’s tough to defeat sometimes. When it gets overwhelming I just actually tell that voice to shut up! I then try to focus on all of the good/positive things going on – and if there aren’t much, I try to create something positive.

Congrats on the success you’re having with your Photography group!! From small seeds grow great Oaks! :)

Wendy C. Photography - March 3, 2010 - 9:08 am

Hi Bill! Thanks for leaving a comment. I would imagine that we are not the only ones who feel discouraged at times. The hard part is picking our heads up and looking forward. I am a firm believer in letting God be in control. If we work hard for what we want and feel passionate about, God will open the doors that He feels deserve or need to be opened!

Nashville Wedding Photographer: Wendy C. Photography Mad Gab Monday

Okay guys… I thought I’d try something a little fun on the blog!  How about a Mad Gab?  Leave me a comment on this post with your guess to the answer!  No cheating!  I will hold off on approving comments until I announce the answer.  So be sure to leave your answer in the comment section and check back to see if you got it right!  I will probably announce the answers on Wednesdays of every week, but since this is the first week, I will wait until Friday!

Remember… It’s what you hear, not what you say!

Ready?  GO!

Thigh Sing Gone Thick Ache

Let’s hear it!  What is your guess?  Leave your answer in the comment section!

And simply because this is a photo blog… here is a random photo!

Nashville Wedding Photographer: Wendy C Photography

lindsey - March 2, 2010 - 3:31 pm

the icing on the cake

Mandy - March 2, 2010 - 3:42 pm

The icing on the cake! Love that game! :) )

Clayton Johnson - March 2, 2010 - 3:45 pm

The Icing on The Cake

Tracy - March 2, 2010 - 3:59 pm

The Icing On The Cake

Joe Bellino - March 2, 2010 - 3:59 pm

The Icing on the cake

Susie A. - March 2, 2010 - 4:02 pm

The icing on the cake….

S.

Lisa Powers - March 2, 2010 - 6:07 pm

icing on thick cake? yum

Jennifer Duffy - March 2, 2010 - 6:49 pm

The “icing on the cake”

Daniel Craft - March 2, 2010 - 7:38 pm

my guess is: The Icing on the Cake

David Taylor - March 2, 2010 - 7:45 pm

The icing on the cake

Julie Provost - March 3, 2010 - 2:15 am

“The Icing on the cake?”

Thomas Spragg - March 3, 2010 - 8:17 am

The icing on the cake?

Donna Tomlin - March 3, 2010 - 8:31 am

I will give it a try – “The Icings on the Cake”

Kortney Jarman - March 3, 2010 - 10:23 am

The Icing’s on the cake

Sheila Grossman - March 4, 2010 - 10:14 pm

The icing on the cake.

Sheila Grossman - March 4, 2010 - 10:15 pm

My guess is: The icing on the cake.

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Nashville Wedding Photographer: Wendy C. Photography Earth Hour 2010 – GO GREEN

Earth Hour Nashville

Earth Hour Nashville - 2009 The View From Shelby Street Bridge

Climate change poses a serious threat to our lives, the lives of wildlife and the natural habitats we all call home. World Wildlife Fund seeks to protect those threatened by climate change and through Earth Hour 2010 you can learn more about how you can reduce the effects of climate change now and protect our entire planet’s future.

During Earth Hour on March 27, 2010 hundreds of millions of people around the world will come together to call for action on climate change by doing something quite simple—turning off their lights for one hour. The movement symbolizes that by working together, each of us can make a positive impact in this fight, protecting our future and that of future generations.

Please join me in support of Earth Hour.  All you have to do is go here and register!  Take part in what could possibly be the largest world movement in history simply by signing up, and then turning off your unnecessary lights for one hour on March 27th, 2010 at 8:30 sharp!

Watch the following video! There are several shots from Nashville and other cities all across the planet participating in this world wide event!

All I am asking you to do for me is register here, and turn off your own lights at home for ONE HOUR on March 27th at 8:30 pm local time! You don’t even have to turn them ALL off. Only the ones that are not necessary! Watch television in the dark. Eat dinner by candle light! Make this a family awareness event in your own home. Make your kids aware! We are always looking for ways to help them to remember to turn their bedroom lights off behind them anyway, right?  You can even share this website with them and let them come up with their own ideas of how they can contribute! Come on guys! It is time to start caring about this planet and preserving it for our grandchildren, and their children, as well as the animals that are dependent upon the very climates and environments that they are currently living in!  This hour of darkness (or semi-darkness) is not meant to change the planet or the environment, but to show support and help raise awareness!

I will be in Nashville participating in this event by photographing the city before and after the lights go out.  I will post another posting on this blog to share some photographs with you after the event, and I would love to see your own family home photographs as well.  I will create a spot for you to upload them to and share them with us.  Here are a couple of shots from last year.  One shows the view of the riverfront before lights out, and the other shows the same view after lights out!  As you can see… many businesses downtown opted in on this movement.  I hope we see more this year!

Earth Hour Nashville

Earth Hour Nashville

After you register, will you please leave me a comment here on the blog?  Show your support!  And I also hope you will register with my blog!  Come on guys… I see my stats!  LOL!  I know you are visiting and reading.  Just register so I will know who to send the love to!

*Portions of this post was taken from the Earth Hour website in order to provide you with accurate information.
Juan Jose Garcia - May 10, 2012 - 7:05 pm

HI! do you still have photos of the “go green” nashville?

Nashville Wedding Photographer: Wendy C. Photography Fostering Rescue Pups

What can I say?  I’m a big softie!  I love animals… especially puppies.  And when I got a call asking me to foster a couple of Rottie puppies that I had a hand in saving, I couldn’t say no!  This is a small way for me to give back to my community!

When they arrived at my home, they had just been neutered that day.  They were also very nervous pups.  They have never had any sort of socialization because they were being held in a back room at the animal shelter pending a court case against their owner.  However it didn’t take them long to realize that we were their friends, and man did they come out of their shell!

These two babies are two of the eight puppies that are left from a litter that died.  What a sad story!

Nashville Wedding Photographer: Wendy C. Photography

Momma and Daddy Rottie were abandoned in their own back yard!  The owners moved out of their home and showed up about once a week to throw some food in the yard.  I slowly watched these animals lose more and more weight.

Then I realized that the Momma Rotty was pregnant, yet emaciated.  You could see her ribs terribly.  Even though I called the animal shelter several times, they could not do anything about it because Tennessee laws state that if the owner responds to animal control’s requests within five days, then animal control is not legally allowed to remove them.  So all the owner had to do was show up and feed them once every five days to avoid having them removed.

Since nothing was getting accomplished with these dogs, I finally called a police officer that I was told by a local vet would do something about this.  So when I called the officer, she immediately showed up at my neighbor’s home to take pictures, and not long after that charges were brought against the animal owner and the dogs were finally seized!

The animal shelter held the animals for several months while the case was being heard in court.  I am happy to say that the animal owner had to surrender Momma Rottie and the puppies, as well as pay thousands of dollars in fines to repay the animal shelter for what they provided while in court.  He is supposed to be allowed access to Daddy Rottie, but only after he pays his fines.  I am still holding out hope that never happens.

All of this could have been avoided at little to no effort.  I’m really upset that the owner (young and stupid) did not take care of his animals.  He was simply breeding them to make a dollar or two off the sale of a puppy.  He surely didn’t love them.  Momma Rottie had not been vaccinated in Lord knows how long.  She passed a disease called parvo along to the puppies, and only two of them survived as a result.  Now they suffer from the beginning stages of demo dex, which is apparently common in shelters, but can luckily be treated.

I wish the laws were more strict to protect animals.  If we are going to take animals into our homes, then those animals become completely dependent upon us for their survival.  It doesn’t take that much money or time to feed them properly and have them vaccinated once a year.  If people can’t provide at least the bare minimum, then they should not be allowed to have animals.

Like Bob Barker says, “Have your pets spayed or neutered.”  And for crying out loud… HAVE THEM VACCINATED!  Be a responsible pet owner.

If you would like to become a responsible pet owner, please visit Operation Education Animal Rescue.  They have many puppies and dogs available for adoption!